I’m a planner and a scheduler. If you say “Let’s get together sometime” be prepared to say when because I am probably going to ask you. There is good and there is bad in that. As an older single woman I don’t like to waste my few weekend days not hanging with friends and family. It’s not like being in a relationship when you go with the flow; swing by the hardware store, get some ice cream, watch a movie. Nope, you gotta plan!
I know some people who prefer spontaneity. I am sure I get on their nerves as much as they get on mine; but that doesn’t mean you can’t call or text. You never know, I might be free!